Sorry, I did mean "I personally know so many women who *would* answer 'yes' to your questions." I hope I can be forgiven for making a typo.
Our cultural contexts are definitely different. The fact that women's rights are affected by their cultural contexts is a huge part of the problem. A person doesn't choose to be born in a specific country, culture, or religion, so why should those things mean she doesn't get to be treated equally?
You imply that women use men for money multiple times. That all women care about is taking advantage of men for money, and that they would choose money over being with a kind person. That's a horrible thing to say about anyone, let alone 51% of the world's population. You insinuate that women trade sex for money and protection and that women can't provide for themselves or their partners. Your questions attack women on this mistaken belief of inherent greed and selfishness. You make sweeping generalizations about women, many of which are unkind.
You also make unkind generalizations about men. The idea that women can't walk alone at night perpetuates the idea that men are violent and a threat to women. You make this seem as if it is a "natural" concept, and that women need men to protect them from other men. That we need to trade our love, labour, and sex for protection. However, this is steeped in your cultural context and bias as well. In many places, it is not unsafe to walk home alone as a woman. When men are raised to feel entitled to women's bodies and attention, it creates that danger. It is artificial, in other words. Men aren't inherently dangerous to women. When raised in cultures with less patriarchal values, men are far less likely to commit violent crimes against women.
Your argument is a bit like the "good guy with a gun" argument by gun lobbyists in America, if you're familiar. "Women need men to protect them from other men." If we don't assume men are inherently violent or a danger to women, then we don't need protecting from them.
Feminism is as much about liberating men from these stereotypes as women. As Katie said in her article, men act aggressively because their societal values have taught them that it is a "natural part of being a man", and they don't know how else to express their emotions. Feminism instead sees people--men and women--as individuals. It is about treating human beings with respect, regardless of their gender, sexuality, race, cultural context, wealth, etc.
Anti-feminist views are actively harmful. Women die because of those views. Women are dying from unwanted pregnancies and from domestic violence. Feminism is about stopping that violence from the root cause, which is patriarchy. Patriarchy doesn't equal "men." I love men. I love my husband, my father, my father-in-law, my brothers. I want them to be able to live freely, outside the bounds of patriarchy. Patriarchy hurts men too.
